Resources for life in a Stepfamily: StepWisdom, Knowledge from the Ages for Successful Stepfamilies.

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Eleanor Spackman Alden, LCSW, BCD is a psychotherapist in private practice and has worked with StepFamilies for over 40 years. She taught graduate school at Naropa University for over a decade, and prior to that taught physicians in a Family Medicine Residency program. She became increasingly concerned at the negative perspective of so many people that stepfamilies were second best or worse, and a sign of a declining culture. This viewpoint did not fit her knowledge of cultures in history, nor her experience as a therapist, teacher, or friend to so many who came from stepfamilies. StepWisdom grew out of the frustration with the present day "myth" about stepfamilies, and from growing up as a stepchild herself.

Whether you are a member of a stepfamily, a professional who works with them, a teacher, or just have friends who are Stepfamily members I do hope exploring this site proves to more than worth your time. If you find it worthwhile, please forward on to others who might find it helpful.

Best wishes for a successful life,
Eleanor Spackman Alden, LCSW, BCD